***That makes me a “native” and I’m proud of
that! I share memories of growing up along Anaheim Street, the Lagoon, Belmont Shore, the ocean! I remember our Brownie meetings
and Girl Scout adventures; I fondly remember some of my teachers. And I remember assuming that my pounding, skipping heartbeats
and shortness of breath were normal for everyone. It certainly didn’t stop me from being a tennis protégé or taking
part in school activities.
For 45 years, I lived in or around Long Beach. Fast forward a
few more years and here we are now, reconnecting with classmate and recreating friendships. This has been such fun and who
would have ever thought that our sixth grade picture in front of the auditorium would bring so many of us back together. I
found it interesting that I could name almost everyone in the picture. One of my most favorite inspirational messages is “There’s
a day that you know changed your life. And then life gets to be more precious.” The day that picture was taken is one
of those days!
There are days that you know changed your life. And then life
gets to be more precious! One of these “days” in my life was a call from a classmate from Bryant Elementary, Carl
Hughes. I had just come home from the hospital after suffering a stroke and our conversation was such good medicine! We went
back in time to the 1950’s and the playground, the ball shack, our classrooms and teachers, Brownies, Girl Scouts, class
elections. Camp Hi Hill and more. As more and more classmates were contacted, we began to rekindle long, lost friendships.
I was born with congenital heart disease and over the years my
body began to deteriorate to the extent that after my stroke in August 2001, I was diagnosed with severe hypertrophic cardiomyopathy
and told that my heart would not be able to work much longer. In February 2002 I was admitted to the hospital for congestive
heart failure, moved to Intensive Care Unit and put on the national waiting list for a new heart. I was kept alive with medicines
and medical expertise until a compatible donor heart could be found.
The Bryant Bunch, our classmates for the years 1951-1957, became
the Bryant Brats (www.bryantbrats.org), an endearing name several of us decided was more fitting
(and besides Bryant Bunch sounded a lot like Brady Bunch). This ever expanding group of elementary, then junior high and high
school classmates became very important in my family’s journey to find my new heart and a new life for us all.
Prayer warriors offered prayer chains, prayer requests, cards,
gifts, and well wishes flowed from everywhere. My hospital room was adorned with a warmth and peacefulness brought forth from
everyone.
On April 4, 2002, a “day” that forever changed our
lives (and then life gets to be more precious!) --I got my new heart—a special family lost their loved one, and through
this family’s precious gifts, more than one life was saved and enhanced. Over 90% of Americans say that organ donation
allows something positive to result from the death of a loved one.
Now five wonderful years with my new heart have gone by.
My family and many dear friends have become advocates of the “Gift of Life” organ, tissue and blood donations,
and we are busy spreading the word near and far. I was so happy to be able to share my experience with the Wilson High class
reunion last September and continue to reach out to communities through the Organ Donor Program in Oregon (